May 18th, 2012

Power Friday-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Back to Single by Evinda Lepins

The book that started it all!

Coffee Hour!

Whew, I can’t believe May’s halfway gone! It’s like I blink and a week’s gone by, and if I dare close my eyes for too long, the month has vanished! Grab your cup of coffee and come on in for our “Power Friday” thought.

I think this little philosophical thought comes from life experienced! I hope it resonates in your heart and blooms in your life.

Patience makes a journey possible when faith is along for the ride!

Think about that . . .

Evinda

P.S. I’d like to say “Happy, Happy Birthday to Bre, my step-daughter. I pray that as we spend this weekend together, we make memories that make your heart smile for years to come! I love you, tiny one!

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May 17th, 2012

Think Like a Sheep From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Back to Single by Evinda Lepins

The book that started it all!

I’m so glad you could join me today. I really look forward to this time with you, sharing from my heart things that have tied another knot in my string of faith. Oh, how I hope that the words in this series will help you tie lots of knots in your string of faith! Grab your coffee and come on in. :)

Before we go out to the pasture of the 23rd Psalm, let me give you a little explanation. I have been taking this class online called Literature of the Bible, and if I had only one word to describe the experience, I would use the word challenging, and that’s putting it mildly so I’m super excited to be just about done with it.

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One of the most painful lessons I’ve learned in this class is that everything I don’t read for myself, I seem to take for granted and/or assume. Assumption is a dangerous thing, especially when it comes to the Word of God. The truth is there’s some inaccurate information based on assumptions spoken as truth out there so we must dig and learn for ourselves, and in this case, NOT think like a lost sheep who has lost focus of his/her Shepherd!

My first assumption – that of thinking the Bible, as I’ve been reading it and studying it, is chronologically correct! – has actually been erased and now I’m itching to get a “chronological” Bible! I can hear your many questions, and perhaps the loudest one matches my own: Why are the books in the Bible in the order that they are and why isn’t the Chronological Bible the one we study from?” Good questions and for all my studying, all I can say is the fact that they are canonically approved is the most significant, and as far as the second question, I think it would be a great idea for us to get a chronological Bible and check it out! Otherwise, we can Google “chronological order of the books of the Bible” and begin to read them in their order. You can also email me at evinda@chicklitpower.com and I’d be happy to give you that chronological order! :)

That being said, let’s get to the first thing we need to overcome in the 23rd Psalm, that of the time it was written. Though the exact timing of the writing of the 23rd Psalm has not been determined, there is enough historical evidence to say unequivocally that the author is David. Many think he had to of written it while he was a shepherd boy, but I would whole-heartedly, respectfully refute that because he hadn’t made any enemies yet as a shepherd boy, except for maybe his brothers! But after David’s miraculous slaying of Goliath, if anything, he had more fans and supporters.

As we read the six verses of this beautiful psalm, they speak of life experienced, of hardships, of joys, sorrows, and victories, things that a young boy could not have experienced, so it is more probable than not that he penned this in his later years. I would agree that it is very likely that as he penned this psalm, he was reflecting on the days of being a shepherd boy.

For the purpose of this exploration, we will presume that David wrote the 23rd Psalm sometime during his later years and before the Babylonian exile. I, like Dr. Hyles, think that David penned this psalm at a very dark hour, perhaps even during the civil war caused by his own son’s, Absalom, rebellion.

See, right there begs a stop sign. David had so much history in his life and there’s certainly not enough time in this series to go through all of it, so I will just give little snapshots to add clarity to these amazing truths of the 23rd Psalm.

Join me Monday for more grazing…Looking to our Shepherd,

Evinda

 

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May 16th, 2012

Think like a Sheep-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Back to Single by Evinda Lepins

The book that started it all!

Coffee Hour!

Thanks so much for joining me today for a little coffee break and this new series, which came about as a result of the term paper I just had to complete. I am so excited about sharing with you all the things I learned from a sort of in-depth study of the 23rd Psalm. I say sort of in-depth because I know in my bones that Scripture is alive and has something new to teach us every time we come to the table hungry. Grab your coffee and come on in.:)

I don’t know about you, but I’ve never really been a history buff; and to be honest, it’s because it never really interested me. But, as many things in life do, that has changed and hopefully by the time we get through grazing out in the green pastures and hanging out by the still waters, history will become a bit more interesting for you as well. :)

Many of the historical diamonds that I discovered were from a book called “Trusting the Shepherd, Insights from Psalm 23rd. It’s just a little 120-page book, but let me tell you, it packs a sweet punch. By the time I finished reading it, my faith was definitely refreshed. My prayer is that this new blog series will do that and more for you as well.

In order to appreciate The 23rd Psalm more and understand its depth, we must think like sheep. “Is that an insult?” you may be asking. No, it is most certainly not. See, we like sheep, are not machines; and we, like sheep, wander and need guidance. Even Jesus refers to us as sheep several times in scripture.

Yes, this psalm, written in a far different time, which we shall explore, a place in history much different than our own, and yet, the lessons it speaks are as relevant and up to date as the century you and I are now living in. It is with the mind of a sheep and from the perspective of a shepherd that we will exegetically and evangelically explore this passage for a few of the many lessons it has within the six verses. :)

I absolutely love these words I found in my research by a Dr. Hyles in his article entitled “The Story behind the Psalms”: “May the author beg scholastic mercy of the reader. The following words were not penned to be examined by the microscope of the scholar but rather to be enjoyed by the study of the saint.”

So, please join me tomorrow for the beginning of our grazing . . .

Sheepishly,

Evinda

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May 15th, 2012

Cleaning Tip Tuesdays! From Coffee Hour @ Chickilt Power

Thanks for joining me today. Did you notice a title change? I thought it would be fun to post a cleaning tip every Tuesday between now and our next event, so Grab your coffee and come on in for our first cleaning tip and an invitation to our upcoming “Spring Cleaning from the Inside Out” event!

Have you ever tried to get cigarette smoke out of a piece of furniture? Ugh! That is a cleaning challenge that definitely ranks high on the scoring chart. I have this beautiful piece of furniture that my biological mom left me, what they used to call a “secretary.” Anyway, it’s been in our garage since mom passed, which is almost a year and a half ago, and it still wreaked so bad of cigarettes. Okay, maybe because I’m an ex-smoker, I’m a bit sensitive. So I cleaned it all up, got all the nicotine off the glass shelves and windows and we brought her in, but gosh darn it if I don’t smell just the faintest hint of cigarettes every time I come down the stairs and get close to the corner by the door that I have put it.

Well, I’ve put fabric softener sheets in the drawers; I’ve put baggies filled with baking soda in the drawers, and I can still smell it!    So, here’s the newest trick I just learned and I’ll have to let you know if it works: Cut up an apple and scatter it in the drawers and on the shelves. Hopefully I won’t forget about it before it starts getting all moldy! Anyway, that’s our first cleaning trick. Bring it with you to our next event!

 

 

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Evinda

p.s. Why not e-mail me with your favorite cleaning tip, we just may be blogging about it next, and passing it on :) evinda@chicklitpower.com

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May 14th, 2012

Calling in Sick-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

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Thanks so much for stopping by. I’m sorry I can’t stay long today. I’ve been struggling with some sort of virus and didn’t have a sound mind to prepare for today, but please, while you’re here, check out the archives. Stay a while and make yourself comfortable.

We will be on the air today at 1:00 Pacific Time with Blog Talk Radio. Our show, Destination? Joyful! ™ Unpacking the junk one piece at a time! We are still working through truths that transform in the recovery process. Join us!

Be sure to come back tomorrow.

Evinda

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May 11th, 2012

Power Friday with Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Coffee Hour!

Whew, it’s really Friday, already, really? I have heard such great feedback about our Power Fridays, so I’d like to again say thank you for stopping by and I hope today’s Power thought will resonate in your heart and thereafter plant in your life. Grab your coffee and come on in. :)

Have you ever been utterly, completely, and totally – you get the picture! LOL :) — exasperated with frustration that you don’t know what to do? Have you ever been in the midst of a situation that the more you stay in, the more hopeless it becomes?

Well just last weekend, that reality was mine and I found myself on my knees crying out to Him to show me how to move forward in my circumstance because I was completely at a loss, drowning in my uncertainty. And this is what He gave me, and told me to share with you:

When you don’t know how to move forward, take a step backwards!

Isn’t that beautiful? Sometimes all we need to do to gain some clarity, direction, find an answer is step back.

Stepping back and into His grace,

Back to Single by Evinda Lepins

The book that started it all!

Evinda

 

 

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May 10th, 2012

Don’t Leave your Soul on the Sidewalk-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Coffee Hour!

Thanks so much for joining me today for a little break from it all. I pray you will be blessed for setting aside this time, turning all the distractions off and opening up your heart. Grab your coffee and come on in. We left off waiting for my son to tell me how he’s doing. ;)

When he didn’t answer for what felt like an enormously pregnant moment, I said, “Are you feeling a bit overwhelmed?”

Again he hesitated, only this time for just seconds. “Yeah, I guess that’s a good way of putting it.” We both relaxed in his honesty and I encouraged him to fill me in on what was going on in his world, which turned out to be quite a bit.

I felt his weariness. I’ve never had to raise two children, so I can only imagine how hard it is for him and my daughter-in-love. :)

I listened as he shared his victories at the sober living facility, the things he was enjoying most about his apprenticeship, and the things that concerned him about some of the guys’ sobriety that he was able to observe because of the things he’d learned in his own school of life’s experiences as well as the school he’s attending to become a drug and alcohol abuse counselor.

My heart filled to the brim with Mother’s pride as I listened to him recount the things he was learning through his apprenticeship that God was leading Him through.:) :)

I asked him how his prayer life was and again he replied in complete honesty: “It could be better.” And that is when this statement came flowing out of my heart: “Son, don’t leave your soul out on the sidewalk.”

“Huh? What do you mean by that?”

“Don’t ignore your soul and leave it out on the sidewalk to get burned out, for others to trample on, pull from and drain you. Protect it; feed it and you’ll be feeding the most important relationship that will pull you in when you’re feeling like you’re going over.”

“Wow, I’ve never thought of it like that before, Mom.”

“The thing we forget is that even though you’re doing a good thing and/or helping others, you can run empty if you don’t fill up, and this is one of the enemy’s most powerful tools because we think when we’re in ministry we are immune to our soul running on empty. In fact, it’s the complete opposite. When we are doing any kind of ministry-type thing, any type of kingdom-building work, we need to be topping our souls off, not allowing them to get anywhere near empty!”

We talked for a few more minutes, and after saying our good-byes, I hung up, thinking about the profound statement that I know He had given me, but the crazy thing was, it wasn’t just for him; it was also for me!

Any time we mistakenly think we’ve got it figured out, let us remember this powerful truth that I will borrow from John Ortberg: “To be nobody but yourself in a world which is doing its best day and night to make you everybody else means to fight the hardest battle which any human being can fight and never stop fighting”!

Oh, that we would relish being who and what He created us to be!

In His will,

Evinda

 

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May 9th, 2012

Don’t Leave your Soul on the Sidewalk-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Coffee Hour!

Thanks so much for joining me for our Coffee Hour. I know it’s not always easy to break away but my prayer is that you will be glad that you did! Grab your coffee and come on in.

The title of today’s blog just burst out of my heart and mouth in the midst of a long-awaited conversation with my son. It had been a couple of weeks since we had talked and despite leaving him a couple of “encouraging” messages, he had not returned my calls. As I write this, I think to myself, Now, I certainly didn’t raise him to be rude! Oh, get over yourself, girl. Oh, dear, I’m starting to have conversations with myself! LOL! :)

Anyway it wasn’t like I was waiting by the phone for his call, but once a mom, always a mom and when I don’t hear from him for a while, especially after leaving messages, I become a little concerned! Now, there’s an exaggeration! I was getting REALLY concerned and the mother’s intuition thing was beginning to kick into overdrive, which is not a good thing!

The reality is, he’s a husband, a daddy to six-year-old Dillan and three-year-old Tyler, a full-time student and part-time worker. His life is crazy full, rushing past him at the speed of lightening. I totally understood why we hadn’t been able to connect. I just missed him and I sensed that because he hadn’t had a day off in over two months, he was probably teetering towards burn-out Mountain, especially if he wasn’t nurturing his own soul! Moms just know these things! :) Can I get an “Amen”? :)

Two days after praying that he would call, I was driving to the grocery store and my cell phone rang. As soon as my screen told me it was him, I immediately found a place to pull over so I could give him my undivided attention, abandoning the current emotional tug-of-war I found myself in.

I was so excited to talk with him and as soon as I heard his voice, my heart sang. When I asked him how he was doing, and he hesitated, my heart dropped to my feet for a moment, and I knew that I knew that he was soul-tired.

See, at that time, he was probably a fourth of the way complete with his apprenticeship at a sober living facility in Pasadena and though he was helping others with their program, his own program was getting little attendance, becoming a flicker in the background, something he would tend to later, because, in his mind, the demands on his time are many.

In his hesitation, a newly-learned truth came to the forefront of my mind: even in the midst of our ministry, or our calling, our own souls can wind up on the sidewalk.

Join me tomorrow for the explanation and conclusion to this powerful truth.

In His grip,

Evinda

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May 8th, 2012

Invitation Tuesdays-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Thanks so much for joining me today, the first of our “Invitation Tuesdays” series. Grab your coffee and come on in. I really do have a special invitation for you.

It’s never too late for spring cleaning! Now, I can hear some of you groaning and moaning, but think about it, when the “spring cleaning’s” all done, don’t you feel thoroughly revived? I know when I roll up my sleeves – aka, procrastination – and decide to clean something in the house and do it, I feel better for having done it . . . EVERY time!

Well, how powerful it’s going to be to join together for a bit of “internal” spring cleaning with our major multi-purpose cleaner, FORGIVENESS!

Who do you know that could use a little forgiveness? Bring them along. You will definitely be glad you did!

Here’s your invitation. . .

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May 7th, 2012

“Back to Single! Update-From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Coffee Hour!

Thanks for stopping by today for a little break and joining me for a little more inside scoop about “Back to Single!” Grab your coffee and come on in. :)

So where were we? Oh, yeah, we have just confirmed the target audience: anyone looking for love between the ages of 30-50 – or thereabouts! :) — single parent, and/or anyone who’s experienced a broken relationship/divorce, or in the midst of that now!

Traci then confirmed this with these words: “I have two people in my life right now who ‘need’ your book.” See, Traci isn’t necessarily part of the target audience, but there are people in her life who are!

Well, that was another illuminating moment. Why? Because her two friends don’t know me from Adam and so the truth of the message within this book resonates with the truth that it’s not about me!

There are a lot of single women out there, some by choice but many, not so! What a great way to escape, if but momentarily, and find hope in and through someone else’s story?

Back to Single by Evinda Lepins

The book that started it all!

So that’s breakthrough number two that I’m clinging to as Traci and I come up with creative ways to promote “Back to Single!” There’s another big one, but I can’t share it just yet. :)

Thanks so much for joining me today and allowing me to share these breakthroughs which strengthen my faith and reveal this truth: Even when things seem to be spinning out of control and you wonder if you’re on the right track, and/or you wonder if He’s really up there on the throne working for your benefit, may you know that you know that faith is not seeing, but believing. I am grateful that even when I/we doubt, He’s there to assure us.

Joyfully,

Evinda

 

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