How to get the Most out of Your Day (conclusion) From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power

Welcome to Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power and thanks for joining me for this final blog on “How to Get the Most out of your Day.” I’m going to get a little up close and personal with you about these time stealers. 🙂 Grab your coffee and come on in.

Just to recap, we talked a little bit last Coffee Hour about time stealers, and I mentioned computer games – my favorite is Solitaire. My husband bought me a Zoom tablet for Mother’s Day and I still don’t know how to use it but one thing I’ve learned to do is play Solitaire on it! But I’ve caught myself becoming a bit obsessive with it because I was turning it into an every-night thing where I would play every night before going to bed to wind down, and it didn’t take long to turn into a habit. Talk about addictive personality! 🙂 🙁 🙂 You might be saying well, what’s wrong with playing Solitaire every night? Well for most people, probably not a whole heck of a lot, but I have a husband that would like some cuddle time, who needs to know he’s a priority and I can tend to withdraw into my own little cave to tune everything and everyone out when I’m done for the day, so it’s something I have to be careful with.

Facebook is an amazing tool, but too much time on it and it becomes a weapon, seriously! How many emotional boundaries have been crossed because of a “long lost connection”? How many marriages have been ruined because of finding an “old friend”? I’ve seen it happen and I’ve heard about it happening many, many times. Let me see if I can explain the importance of balance with this time stealer and I’ll tell on myself to make the point. I know every day I check for messages or accepted “friend requests.” A lot of the time, I have this hopeful anticipation, and I look forward to seeing what others are up to who are a part of my world. It’s fun and it is a good thing.

Now, switch gears. When it comes to meeting with Him, spending time with Him, getting to know more about His characteristics from His Word and just hanging out in His presence, do I have that same kind of hopeful anticipation and am I looking forward to my time with Him as much as I look forward to checking for messages on Facebook and/or chatting with old and new friends? And do I hang out with Him at least half as much as I do on Facebook?

Hmmm, I wonder what life would look like if there were more of Him in it and less of these time stealers!

And what about that cell phone or telephone? Wow, I used to live with that thing in my ear! 🙂 Not really, but you get the picture. Again, this is such an amazing tool that we can tend to turn into a destructive weapon if we’re not careful. Do we use it to encourage one another more than we do for idle chit-chat? Or is the reverse true?

We must remember the spiritual component as we begin our day so we are better equipped to recognize those time stealers throughout our day. This will enable us to use these things for His glory and our good. It is a simple equation: Mind + body + soul = balance. Take one of those three out, and now you are like a church without a pastor, a plane without a pilot, a car without a steering wheel, a song without a melody, a story without an ending . . .

These are just a few time stealers that can really get us derailed from a productive day. We are so inundated with social networking, with advertising, declining morality, in addition to all of our responsibilities, which is why we cannot get up and hit the ground running, thinking we can accomplish more and more. When we put The Rock first, He gets us through the rest of the stuff.

The truth is He looks forward to spending time with you and me and He just wants us to want time with Him more than with the things that can take us away from Him. I also know He’s not there with a timer on His wrist waiting to reprimand any of us about these time stealers. In His gentle and unconditionally loving way, He will reveal when we are out of balance and tip the scale for us!

Balanced by His hand . . .

Evinda

 

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6 Responses to “How to get the Most out of Your Day (conclusion) From Coffee Hour @ Chicklit Power”

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  3. admin says:

    Thanks for joining me! Monday through Friday. I look forward ti spending time with you!
    Blessings,
    Evinda

  4. admin says:

    Thanks for joining me now!
    Blessings,
    Evinda

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